STRANGER / DANGER
Protecting our children starts with empowerment rather than fear. By focusing on recognizable behaviors and simple family rules, we can teach our kids to stay alert while maintaining their natural sense of curiosity and confidence in the world around them.
Focus on Tricky People, Not All Strangers
- Teach children that 'tricky people' are those who ask kids to keep secrets or help with things that adults should handle.
- Remind them that safe adults seek help from other adults—they don't look to children for assistance with pets or chores.
Simple Rules Kids Can Remember
- No, Go, Yell, Tell: Say no, run away, yell as loud as you can, and find a trusted adult immediately if someone makes you feel unsafe.
- The Buddy System: Always stay with a friend or a group when you are playing outside or in public places.
- Ask First: Never take gifts or go anywhere with any adult without asking your parent or guardian for permission first.
Keep the Conversation Calm and Ongoing
Incorporate safety tips into your family’s routine naturally rather than as a scary event. When the conversation stays calm and consistent, children feel more prepared and less afraid to speak up if something feels wrong.
HOW TO PRACTICE WITH YOUR CHILD
Kids remember safety rules best when they practice them with you. Keep it calm and simple—almost like a game. Try a few “what if” questions at the dinner table or in the car:
- “What if someone in a car asked you to help find their dog?”
- “What if a grown‑up said, ‘Don’t tell your parents, this is our secret’?”
- “What if you got separated from me in a store or at an event?”
After each one, let your child answer, then gently guide them if needed. The goal isn’t to scare them; it’s to help them feel ready and confident if something doesn’t feel right.
IDEAS TO DISCUSS WITH YOUR CHILDREN, COMPLIMENTS OF OFFICER FRIENDLY.